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If an intelligent girl expresses the desire to be a Stay At Home wife and mother, would THAT be a dealbreaker for YOU? If not, why not, and if so, why?

Definitely not a dealbreaker,

but only if she had the right REASONS

and had what do ALL DAY.

if there’s even a hint of laziness

then mos def NOT OKAY

also, until first kid comes

she needs to work, no excuses

The Gemara says: no work at all

makes the wimminz go crazy