From the perspective of 43 years of successful marriage let me offer the following example:
Avrohom Avinu was among the greatest men who ever lived and the father of us all. Yet when it came to a major disagreement with Sarah, HaShem said, “listen to your wife”. And this wasn’t about tidying up the tent. It was about disowning Avrohom’s bechor.
You want a long, happy and successful marriage? Listen to your wife. Your success in life, in parnassa, in learning is through the zechuyos of your wife. do what she says.