mavmav
You cant survive without money and you probably dont intend to collect in shul so if your parents or her parents or the combination can’t support you, you will be in big trouble. Betachon can only work when you have a conceivable plan of making parnassa. I really wish these Rabbonim who would never keep their own advice would stop advising people. You aren’t Reb Zusha Mihanipoli who could just say Zusha is hungry and Hashem would make a neis and food would show up. If your wife has no job and your parents cant support you have no right to get married.