Frankly I don’t think the OTD crowd should be the ones telling us how to be mechahnech our children.If the writer was a Baales Teshuva, now practicing a more lenient version of Orthodox Judaism, that would be one thing but under the current circumstances I don’t need her advise about “Chanoch L’Naar Al Pi Dorkoy”
I’m not disagreeing with her I’m just commenting on the oddness of this whole post. I think there is really something else underlying when OTD people say “Had I been brought up MO maybe I would of remained frum”It is an attempt to shift blame for their going OTD from themselves to their parents schools etc.