This might be a silly question but I do wonder. A Jewish woman will most likely stop working when she has young children. Most people don’t want Polish babysitters taking their children off the bus and bringing them up 50% of their non-school waking time. So a girl gets her college degree by 22 and then is married soon after. By 25 she’ll likely have a kid or two. So she’s going to start using her degree when she’s close to or above 40 when probably much of what she learnt will have changed? And forget graduate degrees. Is it really even worth the cost in time and money if it will remain unused for so long? Before you know it, the couple will be retiring not long after starting to use the degree in the workforce!
And I’m talking about even if you can get past all the nisyonos of four or more years in a secular coed environment.