eman: That person is a jerk.
When my wife was pregnant with our twins, we knew we were having a boy and a girl. The only thing I asked the doctor was if there was a way to control which one came out first. I had a chance to do a once in a lifetime mitzvah of pidyon haben, and I didn’t want to miss out!
It turned out that he was born first – but via a C-Section, so there was no pidyon. Oh well. Two of my brothers had girls first, and the one who had a boy first is married to a bas Levi. No pidyon as of yet from my family, although there are a few more unmarried siblings still to go.