Is anyone upset in the double standards in Yiddishkeit? A 30 year old man with a good job and apartment is a schlepper, looser and nebbech but a 30 year old girl living in her parents house and a part-part-part-time job is such a sad story for such a wonderful maidel.
Or a shadchan complains about people asking for support but will only set “Top guys in Lakewood” up with girls whose families have dough?