I am not sure what the point of this thread is.
If you have a problem with tznius vs shalom bayis – ask your Rav.
I assure you most women dress based on what their friends wear.
If you REALLY want to influence women – get married and try influencing your wife to change the way she dresses.
Once you’ve convinced your wife to change, a Herculean feat, her social network will have ripple effects, which you should not be noticing and most likely will not notice even if you try to pay attention. And I wish you much hatzlacha in this endeavor.