Reply To: Cleaning up Shidduchim

Sorry to hear about that. I agree that it’s very important for people to know what to say and not say. If it’s something that people don’t need to know like he sings while driving for example, then you leave it up to him to mention later. But if it’s important like his/her hashkafah, and any issues physical or mental, middos, financial situation etc. That should be discussed.