Jfem – the discovery and availability of bc is probably one of the worst things that ever happened in the history of the world (in terms of morality). Do you think that the world is a better place because of it? There might be a few more people who’d evilly choose abortions, but there’d be far, far, more decency in the world.
I will not address your point regarding which fetuses it is okay to murder.
Wikipedia is an excellent place to start looking when someone sanctimoniously questions what you took to be basic knowledge.
If God created man and woman to do different things and told us what they are, then blaming men for those roles is a direct contradiction.