“men got torah as a tavlin for it and women dont- that should be a raayah.”
Women got tznius.
“thirdly, while women do have an emotional YH that men dont, that wasnt the topic of discussion”
Ill say it more explicitly since you misunderstood what I was saying. The male taayva is generally that they desire others whereas a woman’s taayva is to be desired.
It’s the same yetzer hara with equal intensity. The only difference is how men and women express it.
” i was specifically arguing that its acceptable to admit that men can have a stronger taaveh then women, and for some reason that went against someones equality standards, which is retarded.”
Because men walk around thinking they deserve the world coming to them for having morals. If it helps your ego I applaud you for being a good boy.