Reply To: What is forgiving?

She is not cutting or talking about it.

“When other girls found out none were surprised she would do it….we all know that is the way she ussually talks” – i meant that about cutting off ties, she ussually talks blunt and no one was surprised that she’d be like “I dont want to habe any contact with you, I dont need relashenships, I was put here to serve Hashem not to spend my time being with friends” and then hang up.

A mutual friend told me last week that she says she is sorry but since she does not want to continue our relashenship she will not speak to me even to let me tell her i forgive her……..