Philosopher. You are making way to many assumptions and reading things into what I said leading you to ask all sorts of questions.
Let me clarify and it will be the last thing I say on this topic. If you are interested in reaching out to someone, (where I jumped into the discussion, it was specifically to reach out to an OTD teen) you should show some respect for them as a human being. If you do not, they will reject you, your overtures and the message you want to convey, no matter how true or persuasive your arguments to them might be.
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