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“and when they look good , it works for them”.
NEVER. We have never been praised, and we don’t expect to be. All the way back to Moshe and Aharon. When people look to complain, to vilify, to besmirch, they’ll most always find.
I have never heard something like “wow, look at those chareidim…” No, we’re not going to be praised by those who are on our necks.