“and i thought the whole greatness of sem is that girls could rough it and don’t have to worry about looking perfect bec its only friends around them not every outfit needs its own shoe and makeup doesn’t need to be reapplied every seven min.”
You’re exaggerating. But more to the point, girls don’t just dress up for guys. They dress up for themselves and even for other girls. I have never heard of seminary being a place to “rough it”.