Gitmishege
1&2) not always for many it is non-jewish babysitter vs job (To be clear not for me)
3) If you had real stories or even one as anecdoatal and silly as it may be to genaralize based on it, you would have a point (though you would still be wrong.)To generalize based on what you “are sure of” is beyond absurd and speaks volumes about the understatement that is your name.