Reply To: Shidduchim and Hashkafos

If they didn’t discuss with each other about what they want and value and believe etc. before marrying, and things come out that they didn’t expect, then they need to have the discussion now. Whereas before marrying, they can decide whether or not to accept it and whether or not to stay.- Now, they generally need to accept it if they want to stay married. I think they can make it work if they are understanding, patient and respectful of each other. They deffinately need to work on communicating and respecting each other. And if they need to, they can have a counselor help them.