OOM, you sure know how to use your tisha kavim!
But you’re missing the point.
The opposition to feminists has nothing to do with their “wanting to be like men.” It has to do with our Mesora Hakdosha. It’s kept us going for a couple thousand years and counting. And we trust our Chachamim, leading us in an unbroken chain all the way back to Sinai, to help us stay on the right path.
As for gavra’s mention of Rebbetzin Leibowitz, and, Lehavdil bein chayim l’chayim, Rebbetzin David- these two brilliabt ladies never tried to become Rabbis. Nor did they limit their accomplishments to a nice hot potato kugel. All within the framework of our Mesora.