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Caleefornia- Sometimes when someone comes on ‘too strong’, it can feel smothering, and since you mentioned that you felt more of an attraction before he was so persistent, perhaps that could be the reason. I think you should ask yourself what it is, specifically, that you don’t like about him. And like some of the posters mentioned, how would you feel if you never saw him again? Try to gain more clarity on your doubts to help you know better if it’s just ‘cold feet’ on your part, or is there some midda about him you don’t like. Then you can ask yourself, if this is a midda you can live with….or not.