DY – it’s a hard decision to make but I know many people who are extremely indecisive and yet managed to make this decision with clarity when the time came. It’s not a decision issue, it’s a commitment one.
Just for the record the night before I got engaged, I knew that things were coming to a head, and that the next day I would either be engaged or we had finished with this shidduch, but I had no idea how it would turn out. I literally didn’t sleep that night weighing up if this was what I really wanted but I knew that if he was right for me then I was ready to make that commitment.