One might be joking but the reality is people are saying “Bring Joy to Torah and Mitvos” and come up with all these ideas.
But all it takes is one YOU ARE LATE FOR DAVENING , NO PARK FOR YOU
or you cant play with your friends because you have to watch your baby brother
Or the kid plays with his favorite electronic toy on Shabbos , gets yelled at and has it taken away for all your efforts to blow up in smoke