rationalfrummie -“Health: a few dates cannot instantly change 20 years of life experience! If in those years one does not talk at all to girls one’s age, it can cause years of discomfort, anxiety, and social awkwardness.”
Funny you keep repeating the same thing to defend your behavior.
The truth is after a few dates most Yeshiva guys get the hang of it. Noone goes onto having years of problems like you said.
There are no reasons to talk to girls socially unless you are on a date. If s/o engages in such behavior – he is doing something Prust.