“Personally I would rather have the nisayon of emunah over the nisayon of being disappointed.”
I am not quite sure you realize how condescending this sounds. It would be like a rich person telling a poor man that he would rather have the nisayon of having no money than worrying about what to do with his money.
His point is very simple; He is bothered that there are many bnos yisroel who aren’t even having the chance to meet suitors.