Elmos world – I read your post 4 times and I am still saying WHAT?!?
Girls who have many dates and girls who don’t have many dates. That doesn’t seem to say much about a girl. (unless you call being rich something) It simply says they have different nisyonos. One has the nisayon of emunah to know that even though she isn’t going out often, her bashert is waiting for her. The other girl has the nisayon of being disappointed every times she goes out.
Personally I would rather have the nisayon of emunah over the nisayon of being disappointed. We dont, however, get to chose.
What does that mean that you had enough of going out with girls who can’t seem to get dates. Every girl is an individual. Each with her own set of middos, talents, and difficulties. Who cares how many times she has gone out.
If you can explain this to me, I would appreciate it.
Thanks