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MorahRach
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Has someone actually said that to you? To call back after you have lost weight? Uhg!! My friend is a shadchan for YU and she says that boys/guys/men say things like ” I want a blonde girl no bigger than a size 4-6, blue eyes preferably”.. And so on. I understand that attraction is a huge factor in a relationship, but to be so specific and superficial. I hate it. Give someone a chance, you never know!! I know Hashem has your basheret out there who will love you exactly the way Hashem made you.