Humradoxy is a very popular approach.
What ever happened to Kocha d’ hetera adif?
Why is it that if a person relies on the Pesah list of a rabbi who learned under the Hazon Ish and heads a kollel in Lakewood he is insulted and ridiculed and dismissed as a trouble-maker?
Why can’t people admit simply that they choose to take positions that are rooted in a desire for stringency rather than the codified halakha?