Still a gigantic stigma. Some families have been known to give said children away at birth and then claim a miscarriage.
Keep in mind, people say no to prospective matches for wearing the wrong color shirt or scraping plates rather than stacking them. All the more so if there are “defective genes” in the gene pool.
If you have a special needs sibling, then expect a 2nd tier shidduch, unless you have some huge positive to offset the “negative” I.E. lots and lots of money.
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