Yes, interjection, I agree. But it is important for men to focus on the Venutian parts of the book, and for the women to try and understand what Martians are like. But if you read it to try and figure out how the other person should treat you, rather than vice versa, that can be a recipe for disaster.
Also important to note that there are very few 100% Martians and very few 100% Venutians. Most people have a mixture of the various traits. I know that personally I come from Mars but occasionally feel like having a Venutian moment. My wife on the other hand does sometime offer very Martian like advice! (Especially if you ask some of her sisters!)