Health, I shall define the shidduch crisis for you. There’s an abundance of single girls and a shortage of single males. A man who is half-way decent has choice galore. If a man isn’t married, it’s not because the women are too picky, it’s because the man is bad news. A man who calls his ex-wife’s friends “Reshayim” shouldn’t wonder why he’s not remarried.
Most divorces are initiated by women, as a result of abusive husbands. Abuse can be physical or/and mental.