Yes, there was a “Old King and a Fool” who said to do the same. Do what you want. Don’t worry. Nothing bad is consequence for your actions and don’t ever let anyone make you think that. No Judgement no..
I am truly glad the the majority of my Yiddishe Sisters who love HaShem, know what He truly wants from us. No – you’re not going to find this in any sefer. They didn’t have this in times of chumash. But those who love HaShem, who are in line, in sync with him, know what He truly wants. Wasn’t there a poster that said women are more closer to Ratzon HaShem? Did anyone hear of the concept naval birshus HaTorah? This is an exact example.