postsemgirl +1
baalhabooze- i’m ‘in the parshah’ but dont wear makeup everyday. Or iron my hair. For me, i see it as having become the equivalent of wearing the latest fashion or designer labels, neither of which i do either. No that doesnt mean i’m a shlump or walk around looking like i just rolled out of bed. And thats where the line gets blurred. Shaving how often, makeup when, sweatshirts… Which is too casual and by whose standards, and which are just part of looking put together.