OK. Let me come out clear for all.
The reason I kept away from this thread in the past, is as stated before, I didn’t want to ?? ????? leave any negative effect on the most serious issue. Something similar to ??? ?????? ?????? ???? ????? or whatever. The ?????? of diminishing the seriousness of this issue is something I do not take lightly.
Now it seems like there are people willing blatantly, purposefuly blind to the facts known and expressed at length, over and over. I think Dass Yochid has done a terrific job with her/his peices, in installments. ?????? ???? ???, truth shines through, even though people “fight tooth and nail” to try to cover it up. I suppose “the truth hurts”. Yes it does. But a smart person begs HaShem as (I think) Rabbi Wachsman said – let the tears (hurt) wipe off any unclean image. ?????? ??? ???? ???? ??????? ?????? ??? ???. It takes a certain amount of courage to earnestly, honestly recognize the situation, commit to change.