Reply To: Too Many Dates??

I totally agree with you. Its not tznuis to just ‘go out’ for the sake of going out. If you think its a shidduch and you might get married then its OK. Otherwise, it’s totally not appropriate. Really the entire dating situation is not appropriate. Young girls going out with young men…not such a kosher situation. If your mother wants to you to go out with every boy, maybe let her come along so its still OK, and there are no shailos. Better yet, maybe have a date in your house so you are OK with it. You sound like a wonderful Bais Yaakov girl. You should not be going out with just anyone. Good luck.