I really hope this isnt a joke. I mamish have no time…but I couldnt help but want to help you after reading a few of your posts Im no psychologist or therapist, or even old wise man, but what i can tell you is like this. First of all you gotta be yourself, and no matter how zany, nerdy or weird you are people will like you if you are you.(and plus trying to be someone else wont make you truthfully happy) As long as your not a seriously (like its written all over your face every second of the day) depressed, annoying, mean, easily angered person I Dont see why people would want to stay away from you. If your an overall really nice guy, but just look like a nerd in the way you dress or act.. sooo what???? the people who wouldnt want to be friends with you are people you dont want to be friends with, ( waaaay to superficial). Also you gotta realize that REAL relationships with people dont just happen you have to work on them! as “nerdy” as that sounds. If you see someone you once had a nice chat with, and you think to yourself that you wouldnt mind being their friends..than go up to them, and ask them if they would want to chill with you. Also just a massive general thing to know is WHEN YOU GIVE YOU GET. try being EXTRA nice to people go out of your way for them( dont get stepped all over) but just try to be nice. do chasadim.. and yea most importantly DAVEN FOR SIYATA DISHMAYA. there are many people out there who are in need of a friend… they are in the same situation as you!! your not alone bro
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