as a single girl (who’s actively involved in kiruv with girls who are constantly in relationships) I see shomer as a basic requirement to a long lasting relationship–leading to marriage….I heard something very powerful when I was 15 and I use it whenever girls ask me questions about their personal relationships(which mostly are non-shomer)it goes as follows the guy you’ll marry is going to give you a completely whole ring, when you’re dating and get close to the guy but not commited to…you loose chips of that diamond b/c your giving of yourself to somoeone who’s not yours/commited/married to you… Shomer is making sure your whole and not fragmented along with every guy you date…
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