I’m asking out of curiosity of those who dated a longer time and also met often during the engagement period if you became conscious of negative character trait(s) (that every human possesses)of your future spouse and if you did, how did you deal with that issue?
Eeees and I dated for over three years before we got married. From about three weeks after we met, we both knew it wasn’t a matter of if we were going to get married, just when.
I think that perhaps, in our case, we were helped by the fact that we both understood that we weren’t marrying perfect people. So, if she or I did something that was out of the ordinary, we would just let it pass. Yes, we both have our faults, but, over the years, we learned to love each other in spite of those faults, to the point where today, many years later, we don’t even notice them anymore.
The Wolf