Gavra- are you for real? Do you really think that chassidishe pple live in a different world where they don’t know abuse exists?
The reason why chassidishe marriages work is because they get to love, respect, and appreciate their spouses AFTER THEY GET MARRIED. The bond they form after marriage CANNOT be formed prior to marriage even if you date for years. They have real love for their spouse WITHOUT ANY REASON to it. Not because of looks.(Obviously as long as they look decent!)
They appreciate their spouses for their special traits which they inquire about b4 the shidduch.
Chassidish men and woman have the same desires in marriage and love as others do, and their marriages are based on that.
They learn to be happy(really happy) without going out for suppers and vacationing every now and then.
They don’t stay in a marriage if they’re not happy, besides if there’s kids and they decide to bare with it. They DO have divorces you understand.
Chassidish pple are JUST LIKE YOU but with a different lifestyle.