I understand that it’s for your sister. I meant the same proverbial ‘you’ that you mentioned, “lets say ur bashert gets married.” I didn’t assume you meant my bashert got married, but any person’s. Anyway, my point was that it’s not your cheshbon to try to figure out who your bashert is; you should just do your hishtadlus and daven, and trust that Hashem will make it be your bashert. Marrying your bashert doesn’t mean that you will never argue or fight over things, and it’s not a guarantee of living happily ever after.
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