1. If you are asking if it is realistic that you will find someone who does that while she is single–yes.
2. If you are asking whether it is realistic that she will continue to do that while you are married–less likely, but maybe.
3. If you are asking whether you will be able to tell if she will continue–probably not.
4. If you are asking whether you will have a happy marriage if you pressure her to do these things–absolutely not.
5. If you are asking whether it is something normal to want–I’m not sure. I’d like to hear more about why you want it. Is it so that you can discuss these things with her, or so that you will make sure she always feels similar to how you do, or I don’t know why.