SaysMe -“there are many ways to be dan l’kaf zchus the lady for commenting on the tznius violation, and it may be muttar. the extra comment “her relative should be ashamed of her”…
“it is forbidden to say a/t about a person that might embarrass him if it were to be repeated in his presence… unless its for a constructive purpose.” what constructive purpose was there in that? being an opinion, not fact, also makes it hotzaas shem ra.”
You changed what the lady said just to “prove” you are right. Did you really think I wouldn’t remember what she said that was posted on page 1? Why can’t you admit that there is nothing wrong with what this lady said? It’s better to admit that you don’t know the Halachos so well, than to make up your own.
Here is the quote -“how much pain i must be causing a relative of mine, by dressing like that..”
Please go review the CC inside the Hebrew version before you respond to me. Everything I posted here is based on Halacha, not whether I “feel” it’s Ossur or Mutter!