ski, that’s very nice and sensitive of you to look at it in such a way. Keep it up!
Health, those points I made apply ALWAYS, and specifically in a situation like this, where it is so easy to slip up and say lashon hara. And I don’t agree with you that it is a good thing to speak bad about such a person. I don’t think it is ever good to speak bad about anyone, anytime. Even in a circumstance where technically it may be allowed, which is very rare, I still wouldn’t do it. And I definitely wouldn’t be eager to do it, and nor should you, or anyone else. Just think about how wrong that is: “Oooh, look, I have an opportunity to speak bad about someone and I won’t get an aveira for it! I can’t wait to do it!” I’m sorry, but there is something terrible about that.