Sam2 -“Health: I never base an opinion on what other posters post. And I’m not necessarily talking “To’eles” as in from Dinei Lashon Harah. I’m saying there’s no purpose in it, so why would you say it? It also shows an extreme lack of Ve’ahavta L’reiacha Kamocha.”
There is No Din of Veahavta, just like there is no Din of L’H.
And the purpose was -just in case it got back to the girl (which in this case it did) she should feel bad. And even if it wouldn’t have gotten back (because the girl keeps Hilchos of Rechilos) the girl that the woman spoke to will learn right from wrong!
“Besides, we all have no idea what this “breach of Tznius” was. I am assuming that it wasn’t a gross breach or Ski would have left the wedding. If she was Mamash Halachically not dressed then I can see the comments being Muttar, if still even a bit out of line. I am assuming that this “breach in Tznius” was something minor that is probably not visible at most times.”
Funny, and I assume just the opposite. I think this girl did a major breach and she comes here knowing almost all the posters will feel bad for her.