SaysMe -“Ouch. Can’t say i’d know if you have better halachik knowledge than me or not.”
Obviously I do because there is nothing wrong with anything she said! How about Danning this lady L’caf Zecus? Did you ever hear of this Chiyuv?
“You too only claimed you are “pretty sure that that comment is Mutter”. And I feel it is assur. to each their own?”
I only said that because I’m not paskening, e/o should ask their own LOR! But the Halacha is quite clear – as long as she didn’t insult the relative of the OP!
“I am staying away from paskening because i am not a posek and have no desire to give others a psak.”
But you did it anyway -“But i’m quite sure that the ‘hurting the relative’ comment was assur.”