Health: Well I don’t think people without a solid background in Halacha should be posting their opinion on whether something is Mutter or Ossur.
Then maybe you should stop saying some of your Halachic opinions here as well. And no, I would normally not be so offensive but your comment warranted that I defend the person you directed that too, especially as (s)he was right. There is no Heter to make grossly insult someone, especially behind their backs, regardless of if that person did something Assur. Please, try, tell me what To’eles there is in saying “her relative should be ashamed of her”.