Wolfish I didnt say kfira I saind “may border on kfira” The reason I said that was because a persons zivug is decided 40 days before birth
So what? The fact of the matter is that there *are* people who don’t get married. Would you say that people who don’t get married are “borderline kofrim” because they “ignored” the gemara which states that their zivig was decreed before birth?
The Wolf