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A wise man told me the 15 minute rule… when you come home after a long day and are tired and in no mood to have a conversation, push through it and give your wife about that long to hear how her day was. After around 15 minute she’ll realize that you actually care, and she will stop talking. Just pretend your day isn’t over until 15-20 minutes after you come home, and don’t walk into the house with the perception that you are done for the day. She doesn’t REALLY need to tell you about her day, she just needs to feel like you care, which you obviously do, but guys simply don’t view this one action as such an important thing like girls do, and so neglect it too often. Give her the attention she needs and deserves, and then you can go relax.