Reply To: I'm gonna marry a feminist yekke girl

JMH:

To update on my research:

The ??? ??? you cite does not help you. It merely says there are different minhagim of how long to wait–which is nothing we haven’t seen in the rema, and in the rishonim. It does not suggest that it is based on a machlokes about how long the shiur of bein seuda l’seuda is, as you suggest.

I’d like you to find the ????. I did an exhaustive bar ilan search through it, with keywords: ???, ?????, ???, ???? (separately), and found nothing.

So to conclude:

The chayei adom says nothing.

The maharil implies like me (says you cannot eat in same meal, and then cites chumra to wait some hours, like taz explains and like I said).

Rabbeinu yerucham implies like you in one place, but is ???? himself, and the one which is like you is also contradicted by its being based on an non-existent source.

???? is MIA.

Taz, shach, are like me.

Rema implies like me.