But we are told in this post earlier that many of these girls will NOT marry. Those are whom I refer to.
It may not work for ALL cases but surely one girl is worth it.
Speaking for myself, I have been on and off the derech many times in my life. TO be honest while I was at one time very highse about Yiddishkeit, and very medakdaik, i am not more tradtional. Shabbos is still Shabbos, but i have lost a lot of the passion. ( it comes out through my music though).
I dont’ think it’s that big a deal ( maybe Hashem feels differently but this is not for us to discuss)
In the final analysis, the best thing that ever happened to me was marrying and having children. I have ups and downs in the career, friends come and go, I have travelled the world. nothing compares to my wife and children.
Let the girls go and marry a less frum person. So the conversation wont be bout Halacha or the Parsha at the table.
If you are saying she should remain singel her whole life rather than marryuing a nice guy whoi is not so Fiebrent about Yiddiskeit it’s no contest, take the marriage thay you can.