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Hello: I wrote: “I see a healthy sense of individualism” IF boys where able to begin dating at the time that is appropirate for each of them individually. Unfortanetly, as you yourself write, that is sadly not the case.

IF and WHEN boys begin returning from EY slightly earlier, then each and every one of them will be able to begin exactly when they are ready to, not a day earlier- that would be a healthy sense of induvidualism, as opposed to what’s taking place presently.

What I fail to understand is why you equate, returning from EY slightly earlier, with being encouraged to date before they are ready. Each and everyone will begin to date only WHEN they are ready. The reality that when that becomes commonplace, many many perhaps most of the boys would begin before they are doing so now, because as you yourself wrote they really are ready before they are able to begin now. What’s wrong with that.