DY: the average incoming age to the largest post EY yeshiva in North America is almost 23 years old. The boys in that yeshiva do NOT on average get married at 22. If they did this problem wouldn’t be what it is today.
That’s what i’m after. IF insted of guys getting married at 23+ they got married at 22.5 it would do wonders for the shidduch crisis and I don’t even think hello99 can argue nor show any datat that the difference between 22.5 and 23.25 is at the root of major shalom bayis issues.
If anything, i’d posit that girls getting married at 18/19 vs. 20/21 are at a higher risk for SB issues. However I have no studies on this, so it’s not a point i’ve made nor promoted, but it’s certainly something worth contemplating.
Pac: I see you totally ignored my response to your questoin regarding if we can save the “next generation”.